Happy New Year...Time for tough love.

     The Holidays are finally over and things are getting back to normal,so I guess it is time for me to set and write another blog entry for the season.  So much has been going on that this may even be a two part entry but we shall see.  I guess I can start with after Thanksgiving.  This is around the time that I went to pick up my furry child that I had to get someone to watch for me as I moved to South Carolina.

     After a month of saving I thought this was going to be a fun trip but in actuality, I learned something while I was gone and I am still experiencing it today and that is about tough love.  We always here of someone having to give tough love to their child or sibling, perhaps even a friend but I have realized that there is more to it.  During the trip to Texas, my roommate, his mom, and I spent a week in a hotel.  Things got so bad because we didn't have any space that if it was not for tough love, I would have lost a friend.

     When we all got back everything got back to normal...Well almost normal.  The mother started picking arguments with my roommate and it was causing a lot of tension in the house.  In fact, even though the holidays are over, the tension and the need for tough love is still there.  I have a feeling though that this is because of our living situation.  There is three of us, living in a two bedroom trailer and I don't think any of us are happy with where we are living.

    This is the New Year though and I know things are going to change.  In a month from now you will see me happier because I am going to make myself happy.  As for tough love and the living situation...well, we are going to be moving around the first of next month.  Hopefully where we move to will be much bigger.  Did I mention we have two miniature and two big furry people, living with us?  It has a tendency to make things cramped.

When I say that I am going to make myself happy, I also mean that I am going to start a me expense where I can get my hair and nails done on a monthly basis.  Every Diva and Woman deserve to look there best.  Some do it for other people.  I do it for myself because if I look good; my confidence goes up; if my confidence goes up' my self worth goes up.  When all those things happen, I will attract the people I want in my life.  Perhaps this is something everyone should think about.

    Until next time.....Be safe and Blessed Be.